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Scott Fujita Boldly Supports Same-Sex Marriage

Back in April Baltimore Ravens Pro-Bowl linebacker Brendon Ayanbadejo took a bold stance and said this, among other things, in an article he wrote for the Huffington Post:

But now here in 2009 same sex marriages are prohibited. I think we will look back in 10, 20, 30 years and be amazed that gays and lesbians did not have the same rights as every one else.

Saints linebacker Scott Fujita agrees.

Yesterday, Fujita responded to Ayanbadejo's words when he was quoted in an article written by Dave Zirin of The Nation.

I hope he's right in his prediction, and I hope even more that it doesn't take that long. People could look at this issue without blinders on...the blinders imposed by their church, their parents, their friends or, in our case, their coaches and locker rooms. Fujita continued, "I wish they would realize that it's not a religion issue. It's not a government issue. It's not even a gay/straight issue or a question of your manhood. It's a human issue. And until more people see that, we're stuck arguing with people who don't have an argument.    

Pretty gutsy stuff from both of these players. 

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You've just opened the door to politics

Do you really want to go there?

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by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 5:58 AM CDT reply actions  

Dito

This is OUR year!! Yea, I said it. Who Dat!!!

by Big and Easy on Sep 30, 2009 6:15 AM CDT up reply actions  

is fujita gay? it sure sounds like it.

not only is this political, it is religious. there are some of us who still care about what the bible says.

Bottom Line for me: If GOD’s word is against it…I’m against it.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Sep 30, 2009 6:32 AM CDT reply actions  

Uh...

…so don’t get married to a guy. Simple enough.

This entire post and all of the replies should be deleted, this site is about FOOTBALL, and specifically THE NEW ORLEANS SAINTS. We need to keep the focus there, and leave this kind of silliness to those that are qualified to deal with stupidity and silliness: the politicians.

Sorry Saintsational Dave, but this wasn’t a good idea, IMO. :-\

Irony: An atheist Saints fan.

by GSO Saints Fan on Sep 30, 2009 9:22 AM CDT up reply actions  

I disagree, but not in a jerky way.

This is about football in the sense that it’s about the culture of homophobia that apparently exists in NFL locker rooms. It’s at least as much about football as the occasional pictures of cheerleaders that people post on here. Neither of these things, this post or posts with pictures of cheerleaders, are explicitly about the game of football itself, but are tangentially related as parts of the culture that has sprung up around the game. I think there’s definitely a place for both of these sorts of posts on this site.

by jjwest11 on Sep 30, 2009 9:30 AM CDT up reply actions  

No, he's not gay...just sensible.

You’re missing his whole point.
You’re free to care about what the Bible says, but don’t restrict the limits of that freedom. By making everything about your religion, you’re excluding this freedom from others.
This issue will be somewhat like segregated schools. When we first mixed schools, there was a lot of opposition. Today, we look back at it an think we were crazy for opposing such a thing, because as it turns out, it works wonderfully.

by bmi601 on Sep 30, 2009 11:54 AM CDT up reply actions  

Dud

You don’t need to be gay to believe in gay marriage, just like you don’t need to be black to believe in civil rights.

by SaintsB on Sep 30, 2009 6:50 AM CDT reply actions  

No

You don’t have to be black to believe in civil rights. I’m black and don’t believe in civil rights. I’m also not gay and don’t believe in gay marriage. It’s a wonderful country.

With that said, this is a football….FOOTBALL blog/post place. Not one for politics.

GEAUX S88S!! Konichiwa!!

by s88fan on Sep 30, 2009 6:59 AM CDT up reply actions  

It's his

blog and he can write what he wants. And yes, it’s a wonderful country where we should be able to speak our minds without taunts of being gay if we aren’t.

by SaintsB on Sep 30, 2009 12:56 PM CDT up reply actions  

If i may...

make a suggeston and you make keep this post here you make it noncommentable.

Already there are things being said that will cause anger .. among any side that a person can take a stand.

MT

by MT_always on Sep 30, 2009 7:06 AM CDT reply actions  

Agreed.

Let’s just stick to football. The whole team could be gay as long as they’re winning.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Sep 30, 2009 7:10 AM CDT reply actions  

If non-football related opinions = gutsy

I’m against the wearing of Crocs, fanny packs and excessively long wallet chains.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 7:19 AM CDT reply actions  

ohhhh

fanny packs….good call.

lets not forget socks and sandals….

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by asaint on Sep 30, 2009 10:16 AM CDT up reply actions  

whats wrong...

with socks and sandals?!?!? I think its very fashionable!!!

"For us, there is no spring... only the smell of fresh wind before the storm."
-Conan of Cimeria

by tlsk1066 on Sep 30, 2009 10:34 AM CDT up reply actions  

What are your thoughts on belts and suspenders co-existing?

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 10:42 AM CDT up reply actions  

No, Bobby

you’re an oxymoron.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 10:47 AM CDT up reply actions  

I wear Crocs

they’re comfortable :D stupid looking, yes they are but I know my feet feel good. Also, on the topic of socks and sandals, do crocs count as socks? meh, doesn’t matter, i always wear socks almost. Tennis shoes, sandals, crocks, they all get socks with them.

Superbowl bound!!!...I know! do you?! Go Saints!!

by skinnykinney on Sep 30, 2009 1:44 PM CDT up reply actions  

There is no God.

If there were, the Saints would have won the Superbowl by now.

Scott Fujita is the man for saying this. I can already tell by the small number of comments that a good deal of the posters here are predictably the macho homophobic jock types I always assume most football fans to be. I’m daring you to be different and not fit the stereotype that high school nerds have been propagating about you for decades.

If Scott Fujita were gay, and if I were gay, and if gay marriage existed in this state, and if he thought I was cute, I’d marry him.

by jjwest11 on Sep 30, 2009 7:39 AM CDT reply actions  

What a hypocrite.

Pro-gay, but anti-nerd and anti-jock and anti-God.

You know what really different? Standing up for something, against something, instead of just brown-nosing the popular opinion.

If we could just sythesize life in a laboratory, we could prove that the creation of life requires no intelligence.

by Tigernut on Sep 30, 2009 7:45 AM CDT up reply actions  

hilarious...

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 12:39 PM CDT up reply actions  

Since when is being politically correct gutsy?

I’d say those opinions are exactly the opposite. Marriage is an invention of religion. How then is it not a religious issue? This is another creeping intrusion of the gay agenda to normalize their perversion. Just like Cox Cable has no business broadcasting their stupid their anti-’That’s so gay’ commercials, this football oriented blog should not make it its business either. Cox is for cable, CSC is for football. Ayenbadejo and Fujita are not experts in social science or morality and their opinions mean ZERO.

If we could just sythesize life in a laboratory, we could prove that the creation of life requires no intelligence.

by Tigernut on Sep 30, 2009 7:41 AM CDT reply actions  

It takes, Dif'rent Strokes,

etc., etc.

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 8:45 AM CDT up reply actions  

Super Bowl ring

gay wedding ring … it’s all the same to me.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 9:03 AM CDT reply actions  

so

he said what he felt he believed in.

Lets wait to the off season before some of you decide to lynch him.

we have a superbowl to get to

by cajunsblues on Sep 30, 2009 9:23 AM CDT reply actions  

some people are ridiculous. the man has the right to say what he wants, as well as the publisher has the right to post what he wants. and if you don’t believe in the natural rights of man, you are just a homophobic and stubborn loser who can’t accept that somebody is different from your biblical “status quo.” you are so proud that you won’t accept everybody as equal.

by DylanS on Sep 30, 2009 10:24 AM CDT reply actions   1 recs

Your fearless leader points

are through the roof today, Dave. I hope no one accuses you of running up the score.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 10:46 AM CDT up reply actions  

Okay, fair enough

It’s your site, after all. Me, I’m going to lunch.

Super Bowl 44: "If you play in this league and it's not your goal, there's something wrong with you." -- Marques Colston

by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 10:47 AM CDT up reply actions  

Boom!

Rec’d it.

"Gowin on fourth and 14 will punt it away. He hangs it very high, angling it for the near sideline...HAKIM DROPS THE BALL!!! HAKIM DROPS THE BALL!! Brian Milne might've fallen on it at the ten yard line! It's the New Orleans Saints' football! Brian Milne, the most unlikely hero of them all, falls on the fumble, the muff by Hakim! There is a God after all!" -- Jim Henderson

by hakimdropstheball on Sep 30, 2009 11:01 AM CDT up reply actions  

Saintsational, I want to visit you at your store.

I’m at Tulane in a grad program now and have been meaning to start stalking you at your store. What’s the address again?

by jjwest11 on Sep 30, 2009 12:19 PM CDT up reply actions  

and that gets a big boom!

Superbowl bound!!!...I know! do you?! Go Saints!!

by skinnykinney on Sep 30, 2009 1:41 PM CDT up reply actions  

wow! I had no idea we had so many gay saints fans. LOL

i guess now’s not a good time to start gay bashing?

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Sep 30, 2009 11:01 AM CDT reply actions  

lol!!!!!

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 1:44 PM CDT up reply actions  

just kidding

if i was homophobic, i WOULD be gay bashing. I simply don’t agree with gay marriage. if scott fujita does, well good for him.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Sep 30, 2009 11:04 AM CDT reply actions  

do you really give a s(%^ what other people do? How does that effect you? Does it hurt your feelings? Does it make you sad??? Would you have to go to the hospital if two women kissed and said goodbye at the airport or if a Gay couple were in the same isle as you in the grocery store would you have to take a break to recover from the travisty that you just encountered? I didn’t think so.

by drew12b on Sep 30, 2009 12:17 PM CDT up reply actions  

“if a Gay couple were in the same isle as you in the grocery store”

By isle, do you mean aisle? Or by grocery store, do you mean ocean?

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 12:50 PM CDT up reply actions  

crocs and fanny packs on the other hand

are simply unacceptable. if one were to wear these items, i would immediately have to ridicule him.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Sep 30, 2009 11:08 AM CDT reply actions  

ive never considered myself political

but i dont understand why this issue pisses so many people off. who cares if gay people get married, i certainly dont. i mean as far as controversial topics go (abortion, euthanasia, etc.) i think that gay marriage is a lame topic. why, because only an idiot would be against it.

by DrewBreesManCrush on Sep 30, 2009 11:16 AM CDT reply actions  

Very surprising...

ManCrush is ok with gay marriage! :-)

by GlackAndBold on Sep 30, 2009 11:28 AM CDT up reply actions  

that was

pretty good lol

Superbowl bound!!!...I know! do you?! Go Saints!!

by skinnykinney on Sep 30, 2009 1:45 PM CDT up reply actions  

lol!!!1

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 1:45 PM CDT up reply actions  

It doesn't make me angry as much sad...

To see that this country is moving towards endorsing sin. We are all sinners and I’m not here to look down at others because I consider myself the worst sinner of all…however, Christ has changed my heart and saved me from the punishment I so richly deserve by paying the price for my sin on the cross. I am sad that this country no longer tries to bring people to repentence for their sins. It is assumed that people are going to cheat, lie, and steal if given the opportunity. We’re told sex sells and that it doesn’t matter, but are not told to give a second thought as to what God thinks of what we are doing.

I don’t want anybody to suffer the eternal punishment for sin and if I love the people around me, I will not push/endorse ANY type of sinful lifestyle. If I do, then I’m saying because I don’t want you to think I am intolerant or not like me, I’ll let you think that everything is OK and not try to show you what Scripture says and do so in a loving fashion. I would hope that you would do the same for me. If you see somebody about to walk out in front of a bus, would you pull them out of the way? If I see somebody who needs salvation from eternal punishment in hell, just like I was before God worked through somebody to point me to Scripture, then I should do something.

So I don’t hate sinners…I’d have to hate everybody but Jesus if I did. And we’re all on a level playing field. In the book of James it says that if we are guilty of one sin, then we are guilty of all. However, that doesn’t mean I should be supporting sin. Jesus said we are to first deny ourselves (our sinful desires), then take up our cross daily (put our sinful desires to death), and then follow Him. I am praying for hearts to be turned to God more than anything…

by BlackandGold4ever on Sep 30, 2009 9:04 PM CDT up reply actions  

The Bible is a sin!

Aren’t lies sins? Well the bible is full of them. I don’t want to start a holy war here but you are preaching from a book that teaches we are all the product of incest. I don’t knock anybodies religion, free will is awesome, but you shouldn’t try and push it on anyone else.

by vicvega26 on Sep 30, 2009 9:57 PM CDT up reply actions  

The Bible is full of sinners

The Bible does not lie, people do. And God uses the Bible to show us our sin, leading to conviction. Then Jesus came and paid the price for the sins of those who would accept Him as Lord and Savior. If I see people who are bound for hell because they don’t know Jesus, I should at least explain this to them (in a loving manner) or else I am turning a blind eye. We are all sinners and need salvation.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 1, 2009 5:54 AM CDT up reply actions  

No I don't

In fact, there is actually much physical proof of a worldwide flood.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 2, 2009 8:58 PM CDT up reply actions  

Well

I can’t tell anybody their beliefs are wrong even if I feel differently and I don’t like to get into religious debates because of it. Lets just agree to believe in 45 Saints that are on the field Sunday. Oh and the coachs!

by vicvega26 on Oct 3, 2009 1:15 AM CDT up reply actions  

whoa

I am sad that this country no longer tries to bring people to repentence for their sins.

Not really the countrys job, is it? One of the reasons people came to North America in the first place was so that their country couldn’t tell them what beliefs they endorsed or not. If individual churches/religions want to say no gay marriage, that’s ok with me. As for the state, that’s a different story.

I for one applaud Fujita for taking a stand for what he believes in. The world needs more of that from public figures. I happen to agree with him. Brees’ stance on Gitmo, not so much, but I’m ok with him saying it. It won’t affect my man crush on him, although it does probably rule out taking the relationship any farther than that.

 And while we’re at it, the country has always “endorsed” sin from time to time. War – endorsed by the country on occasion. Jesus – not so cool with war. Slavery? Ditto.

by SaintBevo on Sep 30, 2009 10:12 PM CDT up reply actions  

Go read the Magna Carta

You will find that they list the spread of Christianity as the purpose of coming here.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 1, 2009 5:55 AM CDT up reply actions  

yes..

one group came to spread it.
one group came to get away from it
one group got shipped here cause the people, mostly churchgoers wanted slaves
one group got shipped here cause the crown wanted them gone
one group came because of bad farming ideas

Lots of reasons to come here.

Your religion is yours.. have fun with it but please dont preach its the RIGHT way for everyone.

MT

by MT_always on Oct 1, 2009 6:24 AM CDT up reply actions   1 recs

whoa

I am sad that this country no longer tries to bring people to repentence for their sins.

Not really the countrys job, is it? One of the reasons people came to North America in the first place was so that their country couldn’t tell them what beliefs they endorsed or not. If individual churches/religions want to say no gay marriage, that’s ok with me. As for the state, that’s a different story.

I for one applaud Fujita for taking a stand for what he believes in. The world needs more of that from public figures. I happen to agree with him. Brees’ stance on Gitmo, not so much, but I’m ok with him saying it. It won’t affect my man crush on him, although it does probably rule out taking the relationship any farther than that.

 And while we’re at it, the country has always “endorsed” sin from time to time. War – endorsed by the country on occasion. Jesus – not so cool with war. Slavery? Ditto.

by SaintBevo on Sep 30, 2009 10:14 PM CDT up reply actions  

If Heaven is such a wonderful place, then how is being crucified such a huge sacrifice?

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Oct 1, 2009 7:13 AM CDT up reply actions  

That's simple...

Jesus was always in Heaven being worshipped continually by the angels. He had never experienced any of the pains that we humans do. Then He came down from Heaven, was persecuted and crucified in order that we sinful humans could go to Heaven because He paid the price for our sins which we deserve to pay. So Jesus sacrificed Himself for us…not for Himself.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 1, 2009 6:47 PM CDT up reply actions  

Hell is where all the good music will be!!

by vicvega26 on Oct 1, 2009 9:07 PM CDT up reply actions  

you've got to be kidding me...

We’ve been endorsing sin since we landed here. Ask the Indians or blacks? You can’t pick and choose what “sins” you abhor and what sins you approve and gloss over with a simple…“that was then” “or that was a mistake.” Sorry, as a christian myself, I’m not going to act like America is the epitomy of righteous, in fact we are one of the most hypocritical countries in the world, in relation to christianity…Am I claiming we are supposed to be perfect? Nope but it’s the most ridiculous thing to start talking about God and America like the two are synonymous. I don’t believe in that “Manifest Destiny” crap. Dig deeper homie, America has been in sin from the gitgo, just because God allowed it doesn’t mean he agreed with it…

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 1:52 PM CDT up reply actions  

I'm not saying that the practice has ever been perfect

but the intention was the spread of Christianity. I don’t think slavery was right or forcing out the Indians. But those weren’t the ideals that were intended, either. I don’t pick and choose the issues…this is just the one that was brought up here. And no, America is not the chosen nation of God…God only chose one nation, Israel, who rejected their Savior, but at the end of the world the nation of Israel (in that time, not covering all times) will accept Jesus as their Savior. That said, even Israel wasn’t perfect as the chosen nation of God. We’re all sinners…but that doesn’t make it right to endorse any sin.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 2, 2009 9:04 PM CDT up reply actions  

I have to say, as a fervent progressive liberal, and as a secular humanist,

I enjoy wearing crocs around the house. They’re comfortable, machine washable, and they allow wonderful ventilation around my bad-smelling feet. I don’t care how ridiculous they look. Fanny packs, on the other hand, are gay.

Also, just take the word “marriage” out of all government documents, and it’s a non-issue.

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 11:17 AM CDT reply actions  

Machine washable, you say?

Well heck, even my Jellies aren’t machine washable. Not unlike Duke Ellington, I’m beginning to see the light.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 11:22 AM CDT up reply actions  

LOL

OMG. I haven’t heard the term Jellies since the eighties. Thanks for the laugh pizza.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Sep 30, 2009 1:39 PM CDT up reply actions  

Does upgrading a long snapper based on his hike velocity qualify as a Saints croc?

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 11:24 AM CDT up reply actions  

ha!

yes

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by Dave Cariello on Sep 30, 2009 11:45 AM CDT up reply actions  

Nahh

but they are black, so I guess I could apply a little gold fleur-des-lis with model paint on them. Wouldn’t that be fabulous!?

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 11:25 AM CDT up reply actions  

i have saints crocs!

I’ll have to try to get a pic of them on here. I’m overly proud of them.

Superbowl bound!!!...I know! do you?! Go Saints!!

by skinnykinney on Sep 30, 2009 1:46 PM CDT up reply actions  

Three cheers for Fruitjita?

Sorry, it was there.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 11:19 AM CDT reply actions  

That sounds like a delicious, refreshing beverage.

Could stand up with Orangina as the most painfully difficult drink name to not make fun of in the history of vending.

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 11:27 AM CDT up reply actions  

lesys and gay guys...

This country is a one liner joke. Religious fear has brainwashed most of the population. People hate people cause they are different or like different things. It’s thinking like this that is going to be the end of the United States. It seems like most people want to be involved in other peoples lives and that is not right. Mind your own f’in business, and focus on things like teaching your children right from wrong, like stealing is bad or teach them respect and accountability. We need to focus on other things like how to vote, and not to believe everything we hear. i.e. Obama’s or Bush’s election B.S. They aren’t telling you the truth they are telling you what you want to hear. I’ll change this and I’ll change that … No they won’t they are going to get paid make money for other people that pay off other people. WE NEED TO REFOCUS ON WHAT IS IMPORTANT IN THE WORLD, like Darfur instead of oil. we got that covered and we aren’t going to need oil forever. We should save the $915,153,599,440 and use that for other things like energy development(solar, Algae, wind, and surf) We would feel more secure in OUR country and not so worried about losing oil dollars and POWER, I fight the NWO and you should to….They oppose gay marriage.

by drew12b on Sep 30, 2009 12:07 PM CDT reply actions   2 recs

BOOM! rec'd it!

You and I see the world very similarly. No politician in either party is truly trustworthy. $ trumps all.

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by David "Satch" Kelly on Sep 30, 2009 12:19 PM CDT up reply actions  

You obviously don't know who the NWO really is.

If we could just sythesize life in a laboratory, we could prove that the creation of life requires no intelligence.

by Tigernut on Sep 30, 2009 12:20 PM CDT up reply actions  

yeah i do. they’re f’ing gay

by drew12b on Sep 30, 2009 12:22 PM CDT reply actions  

im sorry but that is to funny

by drew12b on Sep 30, 2009 12:29 PM CDT up reply actions  

Without going into a lot of detail...

There are good, logical, compelling reasons for opposing gay marriage. It isn’t a minor issue when a minority seeks to throw away several thousands of years of universal human experience for an untried social experiment. It never ceases to amaze me that people extol the virtue of being “open-minded” (in other words: believe as I do), but seldom give any credit at all to being skeptical.

That’s all a conservative is, after all: a political skeptic. Not necessarily a hateful, irrational loser (although some conservatives are that…just as some liberals are), but simply someone who wants to see some evidence that the latest and greatest galaxy-saving Change will actually not f*** everything up before it’s implemented and it’s too late to stop it.

Just because something is like how it was in your grandparents’ day doesn’t mean it’s bad and needs to be erased from the face of the Earth. I think all you people in favor of gay marriage are homophobic. That’s from the Greek, meaning “fear of sameness.”

I prefer instilling some hagiophobia in our opponents.

Super Bowl 44: "If you play in this league and it's not your goal, there's something wrong with you." -- Marques Colston

by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 1:02 PM CDT reply actions  

Back from lunch?

What did you have?

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by Dave Cariello on Sep 30, 2009 1:04 PM CDT up reply actions  

Fried eggplant sandwich on focaccia. A friend of mine runs an Italian-American restaurant here. His sandwiches are kinda like po-boys, in that they’re very good and need 12 napkins.

Super Bowl 44: "If you play in this league and it's not your goal, there's something wrong with you." -- Marques Colston

by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 1:23 PM CDT up reply actions  

Which side of the argument wants to erase the institution of marriage from the face of the Earth again?

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 1:23 PM CDT up reply actions  

Not the institution of marriage…the conception of marriage as an institution based on the union of a man and a woman. Which it has been in all times and all places since the last time we were in the Super Bowl.

Don’t get me wrong…I’m not suggesting that society has no right to redefine its institutions. If that’s truly what a majority of people want, there’s no stopping it. I question that it’s wise.

Super Bowl 44: "If you play in this league and it's not your goal, there's something wrong with you." -- Marques Colston

by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 1:26 PM CDT up reply actions  

the conception of marriage as an institution based on the union of a man and a woman.

Ok, no gay marriage. Now… How do we stop all the booty humping?

"That's a done dollar." -#94

by stujo4 on Sep 30, 2009 1:38 PM CDT up reply actions  

You ask that like its only homosexuals using the back entrance.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 1:40 PM CDT up reply actions  

We don't

What people do in the privacy of their own lives is their own business. But we weren’t discussing that…we were discussing altering a major social institution, something that affects everyone.

We should be discussing the Saints.

Super Bowl 44: "If you play in this league and it's not your goal, there's something wrong with you." -- Marques Colston

by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 1:45 PM CDT up reply actions  

I just think that the term, “marriage”, should belong to private entities, and that, in terms of legal documents, which can grant various tax and insurance benefits or drawbacks in the case of marital status, all contractually monogamous relationships should be “civil unions”, or whatever. You can call your husband, wife, life partner, common law spouse whatever you feel inclined to in the comfortable confines of your church, peer group, community, or whatever, but when contracts and tax documents are involved, everybody has to get the same access. It’s not sullying the good name of a sacred ritual to extend the same legal rights to any two age-appropriate humans who agree to sign their domestic and reproductive rights over to one another. And I don’t think any marital law is more or less vulnerable to abuse than another. Just ask the Anglican Church, or Woody Allen, or Gerard Depardieu.

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 1:44 PM CDT up reply actions   1 recs

Also, great work digging up the word hagiophobia.

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 1:24 PM CDT up reply actions  

likewise

something isn’t better because that’s how it was 50 years ago either. We had segregation 50 years ago and hopefully we can all agree that isn’t a good idea.

And don’t act like marriage has had one monolithic definition for all of human history. Heck Abraham (I think it was him – correct me if I’m wrong, my CCD lessons are getting a little hazy) had multiple wives, right? It wasn’t so long ago that women were essentially bought and sold for marriages. Within some of our lifetimes mixed race marriages were illegal in the US, not to mention divorce.

bq think all you people in favor of gay marriage are homophobic. That’s from the Greek, meaning "fear of sameness."

count me in on that group. I don’t want us all to be forced to be the same. Have the same beliefs, live the same way. There is strength in diversity, that’s what the country should be about.

by SaintBevo on Sep 30, 2009 10:28 PM CDT up reply actions  

pssst ME

There have been gay unions for longer then there have been countries.

MT

by MT_always on Oct 1, 2009 6:26 AM CDT up reply actions  

mmm...

most conservatives just want to “conserve” the things of old. Not all but most. Not saying “liberals” don’t have their vices because a lot of them just want to accept everything and make everything relative…however I find that most conservatives, who aren’t fiscal but social tend to be the most narrow-minded people around. That’s why most of them harbor in the most rural areas of the united states, they don’t have to deal with “others” and so maintain their skewd views on races, sex, money and etc…. (the liberal version of this is to follow sooner or later)

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 2:02 PM CDT up reply actions  

I guess

I just trust in my own opinions based on the knowledge that I gain on my own journey. Cats like Fugita and other athletes and entertainers have one job and that’s to entertain me, that’s it, period. Loved Charles Barkley for saying he is not a roll model. So if he ain’t talking football then I don’t even hear him. But that’s just me. I’m more interested in knowing that dude is going to get me a sack on Sanchez. For all I know he’s a stark raving idiot on any other issue then football, he may be a genius who will end up with 5 nobel peace prizes, I never heard of the dude until he came to the Saints, so what do I care what his opinion is? God bless him for having one. As for me give me an MGD, a bucket of crawfish and 4 tickets to the game.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3E1VBCcA76E&feature=player_embedded

by BigTMill on Sep 30, 2009 1:05 PM CDT reply actions  

Damn,

I gotta get a seersucker suit…

"Brees will kill you, but he lets you decide how fast he tightens the garrote." -Chris Brown

by FuSoYa on Sep 30, 2009 1:51 PM CDT up reply actions  

you don't have to care what his opinion is

you’re free to read it, think “what an idiot” or “what a smart guy” and move on with your life.

Cats like Fugita and other athletes and entertainers have one job and that’s to entertain me, that’s it, period.

This attitude has always bothered me. Entertaining me is his job, but he has every right to give his opinion when asked. As far as I’m concerned, it is his moral responsibility to speak up on issues he feelds strongly about. We don’t have to agree, but I admire him for saying it.

by SaintBevo on Sep 30, 2009 10:32 PM CDT up reply actions  

That's why

I say God bless him for having an opinion. He and EVERYONE else is entitled. I’m sorry if I don’t go to a football player for my social commentary. And please check again, I never said I disagree or agree with him. Like I said if he’s not talking football his comments miss me. If it weren’t for this forum I would have never known how he felt. And frankly still don’t care. Check the video, “Do what you wanna.” It’s symbolism.

by BigTMill on Oct 1, 2009 8:55 PM CDT up reply actions  

I really don't care who sleeps with who

or who marries who – as long as it’s not my wife or me!! I have a great wife, am happily married, and don’t really care what couples are “couples.” It’s their business.

"Indecision may or may not be my biggest problem" - Jimmy Buffet

by Philinwood on Sep 30, 2009 1:27 PM CDT reply actions   2 recs

If

— big if — it only pertains to the couple involved. When it instead involves a drastic change to the basic structure of society, it’s a good idea to proceed with caution.

Super Bowl 44: "If you play in this league and it's not your goal, there's something wrong with you." -- Marques Colston

by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 1:36 PM CDT up reply actions  

No booty humping in public, in other words.

"That's a done dollar." -#94

by stujo4 on Sep 30, 2009 1:40 PM CDT up reply actions  

There’s already no booty humping in public. Well, not legal, anyway.

Super Bowl 44: "If you play in this league and it's not your goal, there's something wrong with you." -- Marques Colston

by MtnExile on Sep 30, 2009 1:45 PM CDT up reply actions  

lmao!

whether you believe in gay marriage or not, i think we should see the comedy of that pic.

Superbowl bound!!!...I know! do you?! Go Saints!!

by skinnykinney on Sep 30, 2009 1:53 PM CDT up reply actions  

How about hand holding? I think it’s sweet, especially if it’s a couple of old guys.

"That's a done dollar." -#94

by stujo4 on Sep 30, 2009 1:49 PM CDT up reply actions  

boom rec'd it

The Libertarians check in.

"That's a done dollar." -#94

by stujo4 on Sep 30, 2009 1:40 PM CDT up reply actions  

i agree phil...

and I’m a christian…but i know better than trying to bombard ppl with my beliefs. I can share my faith but I’m not going to judge ppl just because they believe something else or whatever. That’s what’s wrong with christianity today. Way too fundamental and controlled by politics and race…

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 2:04 PM CDT up reply actions  

I’m just going to say that Scott Fujita is a lot smarter than I thought he was. Wonder how Shanle feels about it?

"That's a done dollar." -#94

by stujo4 on Sep 30, 2009 1:42 PM CDT reply actions   1 recs

He refused to tackle the issue until it was eight yards upfield.

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Sep 30, 2009 1:43 PM CDT up reply actions   1 recs

wow, you're on it today

at least, i know i am laughing.

Superbowl bound!!!...I know! do you?! Go Saints!!

by skinnykinney on Sep 30, 2009 1:54 PM CDT up reply actions  

How does being a moral coward mean you are smart?

“Moral courage is a rarer commodity than bravery in battle or great intelligence.” – Robert Kennedy.

If we could just sythesize life in a laboratory, we could prove that the creation of life requires no intelligence.

by Tigernut on Sep 30, 2009 3:41 PM CDT up reply actions  

Don’t give a damn if the whole teams gay, so long as they take their honeymoon in Miami!!!!!!

It is better to fail historical, than the live in mediocrity- Unknown

by Silo10 on Sep 30, 2009 1:49 PM CDT reply actions  

Heres the only way you can tell if your a Gay man, you like the Cowboys and you think Romo’s a decent QB

by drew12b on Sep 30, 2009 2:06 PM CDT up reply actions  

Meh

that’s how I feel about it. It’s his opinion on things. I don’t care too much what his opinions are as long as they don’t affect his play and aren’t “hating” on other people. If he said he was ok with not having gay marriage or vice verca(which he just did), then it wouldn’t bother me as long as he is respectful about it ie. no saying he wants to kill them or something like that. I just don’t want people like that in our locker room because I don’t think it’d be good for the team as a whole. Also, I think Fujita is married.

As far as I go, I don’t care if they marry each other. I don’t think that religion belongs in this discussion. As far as Christianity goes we are all equal, should respect our neighbors(other human beings), and not pass judgement on other people. With all of those things, it seems that deciding whether or not a person can get married shows we are not all equal and that you are passing judgement for living in sin(which we all do). So I don’t think that religion is a very good argument against gay marriage. Now, from what I read from ME, that could be a valid point but I just skimmed over it and found that he had an argument without politics or religion. I didn’t really read enough of it to know too much about what he was saying. Anyways, I think that people who are just like any other couple(ie 2 ppl that love each other) should have the same benefits of everyone else who loves each other and gets married. Beyond them having the same benefits, I don’t really care what you do at your place. People don’t bother me if i kiss my fiance in public so why bother a gay couple about it?

Superbowl bound!!!...I know! do you?! Go Saints!!

by skinnykinney on Sep 30, 2009 2:09 PM CDT reply actions  

The Bible says it is wrong...

there is nothing for me to judge. If you have a problem with the Bible, consider that it is the Word of God.

by BlackandGold4ever on Sep 30, 2009 9:06 PM CDT up reply actions  

you eat shrimp?

‘cause the Bible says that’s wrong too. You alright with stoning adulterers? That’s in there too.

by SaintBevo on Sep 30, 2009 10:35 PM CDT up reply actions  

its the next step

in the one you posted as something you wanted to see.

It HAS to be the next step in that conversation because the only reason that this topic is news at all is because some people think a book told them it was wrong.

course i found a book called “Janet and Joan, A modern family” It says it right so now its my book vs their book. psst mine has pics MUCH better

MT

by MT_always on Oct 1, 2009 6:30 AM CDT up reply actions  

In the New Testament all is declared clean

People take parts of the Bible and run with it all the time. Stoning adulterers is also taken care of, too. All kinds of arguments can be made from parts of Scripture, but we have to know all of it to get to the truth.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 1, 2009 5:47 AM CDT up reply actions  

cool

so i can like look at the city bylaws and pick and choose which ones I want to follow?

MT

by MT_always on Oct 1, 2009 6:31 AM CDT up reply actions  

I must have been unclear...sorry

I wasn’t saying that people are supposed to take parts, but the whole. I was trying to show that people come up with statements like eating shrimp is sinful and we stone adulterers because they only use one part of Scripture instead of taking it as a whole. Sorry for the confusion if I didn’t clarify that before.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 1, 2009 6:50 PM CDT up reply actions  

he's actually right...despite

how religious he is…

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 2:09 PM CDT up reply actions  

I believe you are referring to Mosaic Law, and fortunately

we no longer live under Mosaic Law. The laws from the Old Testament were replaced with the laws of the New Testament when Jesus died on the cross.

i.e. when man sinned in the Old Testament, a sacrifice (usually an animal) had to be made in order to obtain forgiveness for that sin. now you simply repent and ask for forgiveness and your sin is washed away through the blood of the ultimate sacrificial Lamb (Jesus Christ).

I’m not trying to get into a Spiritual debate here, but I don’t appreciate people distorting the Word of God. Though you may take the Bible lightly, some people on this site do not. It’s amazing how far people can & will go to defend “gay rights”, but when Christians defend their beliefs it’s a whole different story.

bottom line: Beliefs are like opinions, everybody’s got some. So if ours differ from yours, so be it. That’s your choice. No one is looking down on you for being homosexual or whatever it is you seem so adamant to defend.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Oct 1, 2009 7:38 AM CDT up reply actions  

actually we dont follow mosaic law or new testament law

this is america, jack! so we follow common law (or in LA we’re based on french civil code). and i think its a cop out to say that “the bible says its a sin”. is that your best argument?

by DrewBreesManCrush on Oct 1, 2009 9:14 AM CDT up reply actions  

best argument? I'm not arguing, Jack!

I have my beliefs and you have yours. If you choose condone homosexuality…so be it. That’s YOUR choice. I’m sorry if it offends you that i don’t buy into the “gay is o.k.” train of thought.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Oct 1, 2009 12:24 PM CDT up reply actions  

actually

was just saying that you can pick and choose which parts of “the book” you get to cite for examples on what is right and wrong …. why cant I pick and choose which parts of the “the book” i think are right and wrong and live my life that way?

You are entitled to your rights and freedoms and your opinions.
Gay people are too
so are non Christians, those believing in a different god or no god at all.

ps.. I am not gay and feel no need to be gay to defend their right to do as they please.

MT

by MT_always on Oct 1, 2009 11:47 AM CDT up reply actions  

and how exactly am I infringing on anybody's rights....

when I simply state that i don’t agree with homosexuality? I’m sorry if that offends any of you gays or gay sympathizers, but that’s my beliefs.

I also don’t agree with porn or adultery. Is everybody gonna get up in arms over that too?

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Oct 1, 2009 12:38 PM CDT up reply actions  

because its not something that you agree upon

the idea of having sex with another man is completely disgusting to me (despite my misleading name). but i dont “agree” or “disagree” with my family and friends who wake up one day and find themselves attracted to other guys (or girls). porn and adultery, those are activities like drinking alcohol that you can choose to avoid. being gay is not a choice, most gay people would probably tell you its a lot easier to be straight.

by DrewBreesManCrush on Oct 1, 2009 1:00 PM CDT up reply actions  

if you accept your family or friends for coming out of the closet...fine.

i have no problems with that. hell, I’d learn to accept my sister if she turned out gay. but what i won’t do, is believe that she was simply “born that way”. being gay IS a choice. Again, that’s just my beliefs…I’m sorry if you don’t feel the same way.

Dud has spoken.

by Super Dud on Oct 1, 2009 2:49 PM CDT up reply actions  

It all boils down to this

Either you believe the Bible or you don’t. BUT the truth is still the truth whether any of us accept it or not. Just like a lie is a lie whether any of us believe it or not.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 1, 2009 6:53 PM CDT up reply actions  

what does that even mean

there is some wisdom in the bible, but it is very far from perfect. in college i wrote a paper about wife pimping in the old testament (so was that undone in the new testament?). so i dont believe that i have to accept it as a whole. truth is truth? a lie is a lie? you lost me there…

by DrewBreesManCrush on Oct 1, 2009 9:37 PM CDT up reply actions  

What I am saying is...

the Bible is the truth…all of it. Whether anybody wants to accept that as truth or not it doesn’t matter. And the lies that the world tells to distract us from the truth are lies even if we are deceived by them. The Bible itself claims that all of it is the Word of God (2 Timothy 3:16), which inherently makes it truth. Yes, many bad things happened in the history of the Bible, but it does not mean that the Bible endorsed the sin. Actually the Bible shows how God loves us in spite of our sin and Jesus came to pay the price for our sin so that we can go to Heaven.

by BlackandGold4ever on Oct 2, 2009 9:17 PM CDT up reply actions  

agreed...

Now here’s a sensible christian I can agree with…

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 2:10 PM CDT up reply actions  

i agree Dud

Don't worry I got your back cuz...

by TAYDIGGA on Oct 2, 2009 2:09 PM CDT up reply actions  

what if.....

I don’t want to be around gay men, but gay women are a turn on to me? Lmfao! What the hell am I?

by D.P.M. on Sep 30, 2009 3:35 PM CDT via mobile reply actions  

A lesbian?

"It feels like a tiny prick " -Reggie Bush

by coldpizza on Oct 1, 2009 7:20 AM CDT up reply actions  

I wonder

if the headline

“Fujita credited for Sanchez’s sack”

takes on a totally different connotation on Monday morning!!

by slumD on Sep 30, 2009 5:16 PM CDT reply actions  

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